Hard Sweet Life

Do men have emotions or do they just have a great way of hiding it? Women have been known to openly show their emotions since time immemorial. They just find it hard to hide it. I for example am an open book! Can’t hide when am angry or extremely happy. But men are a different book altogether.   Sometimes you can barely tell whether they are happy or sad. It’s even hard to decipher what their feeling are sometimes. Unlike everyone else, I believe men have emotions too. They just have different ways of showing or not showing them. When a man is extremely sad, they will cry on the inside.(something to do with the ego or something like that) but a woman will wail so loudly.(The Naija women are experts in this, according to my Afrocinema days). Ever seen the look on a man’s face when he holds his newborn child? (Well, one he has accepted to be his!). The smile on his face is heavenly. They are completely moved to a point they cannot hide it at all. They will not “oh my G...

Have you encountered an annoying ‘Matatu’ neighbor? Have you ever been the annoying one? Ever pissed off someone in the ‘matatu’? Have you been pissed off while travelling?  ‘Matatu’s’ and buses often force us to be neighbors. Friendly or not depends on so many factors. Most of the time the journey ends with no mishaps but this is not always the case. Well there is the noisy loud music and some radio station that is not in a language you understand. There is also a rude tout who definitely has your change in his back pocket but for some reason (you may never understand) holds onto your change. There is a neighbor who keeps staring at you like you are from outer space and especially if you are a lady in a miniskirt. He for some reason is either imagining you without it at all or, she is cursing you for having better legs than her. Another will not quit chewing loudly and when they talk on the phone you get baptized with most of the saliva. Another is still in the 18th century...

Should you trust your friend when they tell you your girlfriend or boyfriend is a fake? Should you consider it jealousy or do you go ahead and believe them? How do you handle the situation? James always kept an eye on his wife’s phone ever since his friend Timothy, told him he had spotted her in a compromising situation. He couldn’t divulge the details in case he was wrong but James was hell bent on finding the truth. He found nothing for the first two weeks and decided it was a bluff. He decided to surprise her and apologize for being such a dick the past two weeks. He got some beautiful flowers, got out of work some minutes before lunch and got to her workplace. He sat at a cafe just opposite their offices and called her up. Susan, his wife claimed to be so busy she couldn’t head out for lunch. A disappointed James got into his car and was about to head out of the parking lot when he spotted Susan get into a car right outside the office.  Out of curiosity, he f...

What is the one thing you would change in your life if given the opportunity? At one point in life, there is something one wishes they had done differently. Something we regret doing at some point in our past. Mine are countless. The good thing is that, our mistakes act as lessons and though we may never get the opportunity to turn back the hand of time, we swear never to repeat the same mistakes. If only I had..., I should have…., If only I could have… there is always something that comes in the way of doing something we were supposed to have done. It could have been someone you loved but you didn’t get the courage to tell them how you feel, an interview you attended and didn’t get to fully say what you are capable off, someone you hurt and didn’t get around to apologize due to pride or lack of opportunity, a business opportunity you should have grabbed but were scared shittless, a shoe you didn’t buy, an advice you ignored, a relationship you didn't work hard to ke...

The real tragedy in life is not loosing your job, your fiancee or money. No,the real tragedy is not appreciating life itself. Being grateful that you are alive and kicking. That both your arms and legs are working and though you have no ability to throw the Javelin like Julius Yego, you still have the use of your hands. Though you can not run as fast as Kipchoge, you can walk to work if Kenya turned to Uganda. That you can appreciate both the rising and going down of the sun. That you not only can tell what color is green you can see it. The ability to enjoy full health except for the frequent cold bouts that come and go. The ability to have a place to sleep. The ability to swing or drag yourself out of bed every morning without any pain. And even though you have no closet full of new clothes and shoes at least you do not walk in tatters. Though you have no figure 8 like size 8, you have no deformities on any part of your body. We forget to thank God for all this blessings He has g...

Big Brother Africa I think should be called Get Nude and Win Millions . That's what basically there is to it. There is so much hype about the nude scenarios especially those in the bathroom.  I understand why, but I don't root for it. Not long ago, You could watch BBA with your parents. No nudity, just great pictures and great people getting out of the academy as winners. I didn't say the current ones are not great, I just have mixed feelings on nudity. We are enjoying watching as they bath and make love on our social networks now. That's what's trending! 10-15 years from now we will be watching our kids do the same. I'm picturing a scenario where my daughter, will come up to me. Daughter:  " mum, guess what? av been shortlisted to BBA!" Me: " WTF! The NUDIST show? Not on my life!" My daughter will think am undergoing menopause or a mid life crisis. That I have no idea how hard it is to be 21 without a million shillings. That all she...