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An Year Older But Is There anything to Celebrate?

Thank you Lord for all you have been to me.
Having a birthday is nostalgic! Happy one minute, angry the other and scared. I experienced all that on my birthday, don't know whether any one else does. So now that am an year older, do I have anything to celebrate?

I wish our dates of birth were irrelevant. Like I didn't know what year I was born. At least I wouldn't be fretting on what I have achieved or not achieved so far, I wouldn't be pondering on how many kids to have and so many other things. In fact, the future would not seem so scary!

I would be busy enjoying and not worrying. I wouldn't know am growing old till the first streaks of grey hair start showing. And even then, it wouldn't matter because "hell it's just one hair and Petronilla my friend has half her head white!"

I m scared of old age! Don't know anyone who isn't? That day when your kids start taking complete care of you because, you have no idea what is happening around you, when they have to sit you outside on a stool on sunrise and take you back at sunset, when you have to constantly be reminded the names of your kids and you can't tell one grand kid from the other. Hell, you have no idea which of your sons they belong to! Its a sad chapter that's coming and I would love to go about life without the constant reminder that that day is near.

Since there is no escaping it and am an year older, there are still things am celebrating in my life. I have not gotten where I want to be but am strong and still keeping the Faith. I can still afford to smile.
Be happy with what you have while working for what you want

I am grateful to my loving husband, my adorable daughter, my family, my in laws, great friends I have made along the way (even those I have lost: you contributed to who I am today somehow) and the fact that I have all my basic needs and more met.

Most important of all, I celebrate God, my father. For giving me life and good health. For making sure when I wake up every morning, I can feel and stretch my toe and finger nails. That I get to see and enjoy the sunshine. Ooh! and for everyday I get rained on because I forgot my umbrella (I can confirm that the myth about one getting taller when this happens is a lie; I've got the statistics if you need confirmation!)

The list is endless and would fill pages and pages on end.

Do you have something to celebrate in your life? Are you thankful for anything? Share and lets be thankful
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