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For That Walk Down The Aisle


You say most of the ladies in the 80's age group will never get married, I say men are responsible. Every lady when ready to get married wants a man who is responsible. A lady wants a man who can make wise decisions. Who does not hit every club in town in a day and has control on his life.

Be cool but don’t compete. Men in the same age group are spotting Mohawks, sagging their trousers and  piercing their ears. All this is cool but when it’s time to get a wife, do away with them. I have no problem with a man taking care of his hair or body; I think dreads look good on some men. But when you try to compete with the ladies in terms of fashion, it puts us off. If all a man does is chase fashion, he will never have time to chase a wife. 

Have something more or extra to present to the woman. I think men should up their game. Money no longer sells except for the gold diggers. You forget that women have gotten educated over time. They can take care of themselves because they have the money. So bring something extra to the table and you will see change. Trust me, every woman dreams of that walk down the aisle!

Don’t compare. This is the worst thing you could ever do. Do not compare your girlfriend with your ex, sister or mother. Each of us is unique. Every girl has different needs; they each want something done different from another. Best thing to do is know her and love her for who she is not whom she is not.

Get down to the basics. Forget technology; chatting, tweets, emails and every other social network. Dress maturely (doesn’t have to be expensive), provide for her, take her out on dates and not where a football match is showing, cook her some nice food once; It’s the small things that matter. 
Ladies what's you're take? Should we add anything else to this recipe?

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